How do I challenge a friend to play?

Whether you are playing Daily chess (Days per move) or Live chess (minutes per game) this tutorial video by IM Danny Rensch will help you get started!

Using Chess.com Starting a New Game Tutorial for Web users: 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U0IzmvXwthA&t=1s

For Android App users:
Press the + sign inside the orange circle to select your game options.

For iOS users: Press the "New Game" button at the bottom of the main page of your app.
 
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